Single Life

Oh the Mingle … 

I wasn’t going to blog about this but here I am doing so anyway. In the previous post I mentioned that I was talking to a few normal guys … WRONG! Lol.

So here’s a crazy one for you … I had a guy contact me and he seemed pretty normal. He asked if we could email outside of the app just because he’s not able to be on it much throughout the day. I agreed to it as I certainly understand. Sometimes it is easier to email through personal emails vs. going back and forth through app. Well, his first email thanked me for agreeing to email and to tell him about me. Can I just say that I can’t stand that question! People need to stop asking it in interviews and in general. What do you say? Well I am amazing and quite a catch … 

So I shared some basic info and asked about him. His second email had info that lined up with what was in the profile and he said that he would be canceling his account as he likes to talk to one girl at a time. There was some wording in his response that flew a red flag. I hadn’t responded to his email when I realized he had attached some pics. I pulled them up and it was not the same guy at all! I emailed him back and gently questioned the difference. As much as I tried I couldn’t figure out how there would be a justifiable reason for pictures of two completely different guys.I haven’t heard back from him.

As I laid in bed late last night, I looked up the guy’s name on Facebook just to see if I could find him and found the real guy who’s pictures matched the one in the profile. This guy has a beautiful girlfriend and everything else seemed to match his profile. I felt led to message this guy on Facebook and gave him a head’s up that someone had either hacked his account, stolen his identity or was doing some sort of weird/mean joke. The real guy was super appreciative and there was a huge difference in how he writes so I have a peace that it is a different guy. He wasn’t sure how to fix the situation. I advised him to change all his passwords and not worry about the website as for now the profile is down.
I don’t really know what to make of it but I know this, if it’s crazy and unlikely to happen to anyone else then it will happen to me! But the good news is you get to read about on here.

Is it October yet?

My verses for the week:

“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. Avoid all perverse talk; stay away from corrupt speech. Look straight ahead, and fix your eyes on what lies before you. Mark out a straight path for your feet; stay on the safe path. Don’t get sidetracked; keep your feet from following evil.”

‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭4:23-27‬

I love you all!


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