"It is what it is." This is one of my most favorite statements to proclaim when things are not going my way, seem to be spiraling out of control or my presupposed plan has to be completely altered. It simply is what it is. You've just got to roll with the punches and go with the flow. I've… Continue reading It Is What It Is
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Trust the Process
“Trust the process. God hasn’t brought you this far to suck the wind out of your sails.” These were the words I tapped out in a quick reply text to a friend a few weeks ago as she begged me for prayers over a situation that she was guaranteed wouldn’t be a problem. I wasn’t… Continue reading Trust the Process
Mirror, Mirror
As I am sitting here waiting to get my oil changed, I am thinking through the last blog I posted. Blogging can be a catch 22. You never know how people will read and receive what you write. No matter how many times you edit or rephrase something then someone can still take misunderstand what… Continue reading Mirror, Mirror
Not Now Mingle
I pretty much have come to the conclusion that I am screwed up. Ha! Well, I mean we all are in some way or another but having never really dated I don’t know how to relax and just enjoy the process. I question everything I say and do and figure it’s probably the wrong thing anyway.… Continue reading Not Now Mingle
Oh the Mingle …
I wasn't going to blog about this but here I am doing so anyway. In the previous post I mentioned that I was talking to a few normal guys ... WRONG! Lol. So here's a crazy one for you ... I had a guy contact me and he seemed pretty normal. He asked if we… Continue reading Oh the Mingle …
Lingering on the Mingle …
So this past week on the Mingle, I kindly said “thanks, but no thanks” to a guy who kept making it quite clear that the distance between us just wasn’t going to work and that if anyone was going to be making trips to visit the other person it would be me. See, he kept… Continue reading Lingering on the Mingle …
Simply Not True
Hi Friends - Can we just talk about how wrong this statement is for a minute? First, it’s not biblical … I mean Google will try to direct you to 1 Corinthians 10:13 to try at justify that erroneous statement. Well, let’s just look at that verse. “No temptation has overtaken you except such as… Continue reading Simply Not True
More Mingle Thoughts …
Chances are a profile picture will get you more profile traffic than not … If you have been through a divorce it would be in your best interest not to post a picture with your wedding ring still on … Also, don’t use a picture from your wedding … it’s pretty obvious … Do not… Continue reading More Mingle Thoughts …
Transitions
"Life is one big transition." Willie Stargell The last few weeks the idea of transition has been heavy of my heart. I have thought about friends and loved ones transitioning from this earthly life to their eternal life as well as those who are left to find their new norm without this precious loved one… Continue reading Transitions
Something More
"Stop hoping and start hoping!" - Dr. John Avant My pastor shared this point two weeks ago in his message about God's song for our country. His point was addressing the fact that we need to stop placing our hope in man and ultimately place it in the Lord as the only source for turning… Continue reading Something More